tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3414435776825765041.post4069389179068595284..comments2024-03-25T23:24:53.777-05:00Comments on Stranded in Chaos: The reflection of four. Sara Strandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02641499434694637445noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3414435776825765041.post-13515412581743106832020-07-31T06:53:31.260-05:002020-07-31T06:53:31.260-05:00You are perfectly within your right to feel howeve...You are perfectly within your right to feel however you feel for the things that have happened to you. I can't even begin to imagine the trauma you have been through and the struggles that you go through daily. I can imagine especially this time of year how hard this can be, and although you are thankful for your life and your baby that you have anger and hurt and sadness for what you went through. It is yours to go through and no one should ever judge you for that. I love you friend.Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10206388129869459115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3414435776825765041.post-7970248009735811122020-07-30T16:06:58.132-05:002020-07-30T16:06:58.132-05:00I cannot believe that people are still saying crap...I cannot believe that people are still saying crap like that to you. I mean, people are awful, so I guess I can believe it. But seriously?? That's messed up. I hate that you're so sad, and angry, and don't feel well, and just all around don't feel like working this hard to get through life. I hate that for you, but I also get that it's not going to magically go away. None of your feelings are wrong or messed up - they're just YOURS. And your therapist is totally right. Nobody has the same "stuff" and you can't compare yours to others. It's not a pain contest. Easy to say, tough to remember, I know. Big hugs though, and I'm personally so glad you're here four years later. I'm so glad that you have amazing kids. I'm so glad that Lucy is here to. I'm so glad that Matt is here, and he's your person through and through. Love ya!<br /><br />-LaurenShooting Stars Maghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16074581473656321052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3414435776825765041.post-59079809584438989882020-07-30T11:41:31.211-05:002020-07-30T11:41:31.211-05:00I really do believe that the babies know. I had a ...I really do believe that the babies know. I had a (way less) traumatic birth, and I think my kiddo knows, somewhere inside, what he and I went through together. I’m sorry it’s still so hard. It totally sucks, and I’m rooting for you. amazedlifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12351100154577966345noreply@blogger.com